I blogged last night and did not even get around to writing what I wanted to write... (I swear sometimes I am blonde, sorry sis) I talked to my ex (my sons biodad) some time back... he told me that he was goin through another divorce (his second in 2-3 yrs) I understand the reasoning of his divorce from this wife... but man oh man... and to top it off he has a new girlfriend and she is preggers. Unbelievable. Him and I stay in contact on a regular basis, I ask this of him bcuz if anything were to happen to my son (his son) then I would like to be able to contact him. So its great to talk to him whenever we do, which is not often. I have no ill will for the man. He is my sons biodad and we have always had a good talking relationship. We were friends for a long time before we were together and have managed to stay in contact in the 10 yrs since that. Wow, 10 yrs... that is a LONG time, Ok, I am startin to feel OLD. Anyways. So I talked to him via messenger and then I get an IM from his current girlfriend (the one that is preggers with his newest kid) that says I need to leave him alone... hmmmm ok... well this pisses me off. I do not talk to the man often and when I do we are cordial and ask how we are doin, he asks how my son is, we talk about life a little and that is about it... so to get an IM from the newest skank rather pisses me off. I do not ask alot of my ex. He has NEVER paid a penny for my son in his 9 1/2 yrs and all I ask is that I can have contact with him, just in case. Then to have his freakin girlfriend IM me and tell me that I better quit talkin to him OR ELSE and that there is no reason to talk TIL A PATERNITY TEST IS PROVEN... ok.. now THIS REALLY PISSES ME OFF. He KNOWS that it is his son and does NOT ever deny it to me. He has ALWAYS known it was his son. so needless to say I went off on his skank and told her that I could make life HELL for him if I wanted to, but choose to be NICE about the whole thing. I have NEVER gone after him for child support (and mind you, I was 17 when I had my son) I have ALWAYS taken care of EVERYTHING for my son and if I wanted to screw things up for my ex I would have done it YEARS ago. BUT, I just prefer to keep things just the way they are. Sure there have been times that I could have used the money, but my son has never gone without anything. And for his newest girlfriend to start shit REALLY pisses me off. Oh, and I talk to my ex about this little episode with his girlfriend and his response is... dont worry about it, she is Irish and hot tempered and is hormonal from her pregnancy... my response... I am Korean and can get a WHOLE HELL OF A LOT HOTTER and NOT to f*ck with me. :o) Oh, well... its all done and over with.
Well, I have to go get ready to go... I AM SOOO EXCITED about seeing the Blue Angels... and oh yeah, the KIDS are too :o) Have a great day everyone... and HAVE A SAFE AND WONDERFUL LABOR DAY WEEKEND... and Laura... STAY SAFE!!! :o)