Life is getting back to normal. I still have my moments of breaking down and just crying but overall I know he is in a better place and I am just feeling sorry for myself wanting him back. My grandma seems to be doing ok. She is taking things day by day, and really been staying busy. Everyone has been helping out and been going over there and keeping her company.
The weekend was busy as usual, hubby got back from Houston Friday night so we just hung out at home with the kids. Saturday hubby had a lot of catching up to do and one of his biggest clients was hacked so he had to deal with that most of Saturday, but we did manage to go to dinner as a family. Then on Sunday we went to Laumeier Park, I have not been to that park in a really really long time but it is beautiful. I do not really care for modern art but the kids had a lot of fun and really enjoyed it. Hubby had a lot of fun snapping pics. HERE is the link to our pics. You can go down these trails they have for different works of art and the kids really enjoyed that part. My oldest took a friend of his with us so we had 5 kids on our lil trip.
That same day I got an unexpected phone call. I got a call from my ex's grandparents. I have always enjoyed his grandparents and I have not talked to them in a really long time. I called her back and they seem to be doing pretty good. They have not seen my oldest in a really long time and wanted to see him. So, I am thinking I will have to plan a trip over there to see them. Still not ready to tell my son about his bio dad but he can still go see his great-grandparents. They accept my son as their oldest great-grandson and we have always had a great relationship. Its a shame things turned out the way they did with my ex not accepting my son, but at least his grandparents do and for that they should not be punished. She wants to call my son for his birthday that is at the end of the month, maybe I will plan the trip over there for that... It is amazing how fast kids grow. My oldest will be 10 at the end of the month and it just amazes me how fast time flies. I still have pics of my son with his great-grandparents from when he was a baby. I met up a few times with them after my son was born. They were great back then and they still are to this day.
Hubby left to go to KS again Monday and will be back Wednesday, traveling sucks and it really takes a toll on him not being home. My grandma is here so that helps some, not much, but a little since she is the clean freak that she is.